Christian Marriage Counseling - Why Do Most Methods Not Work?

You and your spouse to come to the couple, who has promised that he would never come before you got married? You know the couple is talking about. It is a couple who are always bickering. That seems to be increasingly frustrated with each other. You used to watch and I only know that one of them was probably a report.
Unfortunately, such a pair is not the exception the rule. Christian Church, we have over 50% of the number of divorces. It 'clear that what we have done so far has not worked.
So what's the problem?
Why, despite all the books were written, sermons were delivered, and the time and energy devoted to well-meaning advisers try to teach couples how to have happy marriages of Christians are still so difficult to find is the type relationship that God wants us to have?
We will respond within one second - and we promise that when you finally discover the simple truth at the heart of every Christian marriage only success, it will completely transform your relationship forever.
But it leaves us ahead of ourselves. Yes, we will reveal where to find a comprehensive resource and free to rotate about their wedding, no matter what it is, but first let's talk about it for a minute.
The simple truth of the matter is this ...
Traditional orientation of Christian marriage and it does not.
But what is worse, we spent a few years of teaching couples how to have thousands of happy marriages outrageously have shown that traditional marriage counseling is likely to mean that the marriage is broken.
We know that will not be easy to hear a lot of people. You've probably tried all the conventional advice - "you present the", "the wife respects her husband's plan," perhaps "the husband is the servant of the leading plan." And yet, it does not work.
Fourteen years ago, our own wedding on the road to divorce. And no doubt, like you, we would in this way, although we have tried to follow all traditional councils told us that had been established in the Bible. It was not until we learned the truth that we were able to save our marriage and become happy couple's scandalous that we are today.
The problem is that much of what passes for advice for Christian couples today has been misinterpreted. Many of the things that traditional Christian marriage counselors not only teach the right.
We do not claim that all these so-called experts are deliberately misinform the church. Most of them, we are sure, really good intentions. But the problem is that they behave like false assumptions.
So let us now that some of these assumptions are dangerous and how you can overcome them to save your marriage.